We all know that life can be a Downer. But with your boyfriend/girlfriend you can find the best in every situation if you try. Katrina and I have some bad days, but we rely on each other to cheer another up and help make it through. Picture your love like a best friend, someone you talk to about everything, no matter what they will be on your side. That is what you want!
You can see optimism is everything! You just have to know how to find it. The first thing is to rely on each other for support. It is a great feeling to know no matter how wrong things go you will always have someone on your side.
Sharing your feelings can be very helpful. Tell your love how you feel. Feelings are like cupcakes. (Yes I do like deserts) They can be sweet, they can be plain, and sometimes they can be the worst in your life. But the thing is when you put them out there, you will be surprised no matter what you tell people, they will always be interested about them. If you put your feelings out there you and your partner can work things out, laugh, and maybe eat cupcakes with each other to help with the problem.(and maybe even make your cupcakes a little better).
And most importantly have empathy. Care for each other, we cannot let each other be sad without saying something about it. When one of us is upset we ask and ask. When you show you care you make them realize how important her or she is. When your boyfriend/girlfriend is upset ask! Show a concern, you will not regret it. - Seth