|Posted on March 1, 2011 at 12:48 AM|
You loved them so much, you thought nothing could ever happen to tear you apart; then something happened...and you thought you two were totally through, over-with, and done for good. You got depressed for a while, and then realized: Wow, I really miss them and want them back. It happens to the best of us.
Well now you can get them back! Follow these simple steps:
Don't be needy. This probably depends whether you're a boy or a girl. If you're a girl trying to get your ex-boyfriend back, don't be needy or act like you're completely helpless without him. Guys aren't going to like you if you're just grovelling at their feet begging to get them back. Don't try to text and call him every 10 mintues, you'll get nothing from that, and you'll probably just end up pushing him away and making the situation worse. So girls, have a back bone! (or atleast pretend like you do, even if you are a total wreck). But on the other hand, If you're a guy, you might want to try begging just a bit. Chances are your ex-girl friend will probably be more likely to take you back if she really REALLY believes that you sincerely miss her and simply can't go on with out her.
Don't date other people. If you really do want your ex back, don't be seeing other people. If you still have feelings for your ex that you're trying to get back, dating other people just to try to make them jealous isn't the way to go. When you do this, it's not fair to the new person that you're in a relationship with.
Think Positive. Belive that you can get them back! Now obviously you can't just sit on your couch with your eyes closed wishing that you had your boyfriend or girlfriend back and they'll just magically appear right infront of you and everything will be back to the way it used to be, no. You're going to have to do things to make it happen, but keep a positive mind set while you're working on it. You're going to be glad that you did.
Of course there could always be a chance that your ex just isn't willing to get back together, in this event, you'll just have to move on and find someone better. Everything happens for a reason, so who knows, maybe you'll find someone even better and more compatable with you than your ex was.